By Craig Janney
The old adage, “It’s not how you start but how you finish” doesn’t easily apply to ministers in their first three months at a new church. In contrast, starting well gives you the opportunity to make a good first impression and to cultivate a meaningful narrative about your place in and among the community you now serve.
Here are 90 things you can do to maximize your honeymoon phase in the first 90 days:
- Ask the search committee why they called you.
- Be present and visible.
- Get a library card.
- Prepare great sermons and worship services.
- Visit with every leader in your church.
- Find your bathroom.
- Enlist your gatekeeper.
- Join a CBF Peer Learning Group.
- Network with ministry partners.
- Understand the daily operating procedures of the church office.
- Approach a certified clergy coach.
- Prioritize your schedule.
- Assimilate into the community.
- Convey your enthusiasm about this new ministry!
- Get settled into your office, but don’t stay there.
- Check off one deferred church project each month.
- Ask for recommendations around town (homemade Yelp).
- Solicit recipes for your next big family meal.
- Commit your pastor stump speech to memory.
- Invite members into your home.
- Register to attend CBF General Assembly.
- Study the church directory.
- Introduce yourself around town.
- Meet with the superintendent of schools.
- Balance your personal financial books.
- Attend civic events.
- Develop a follow-up strategy for visitors.
- Schedule a new church directory.
- Ask members to introduce themselves until you call them by name.
- Deliver on your deadlines.
- Have lunch or coffee with every staff member.
- Add birthdays and anniversaries to your calendar.
- Leave work early one day.
- Schedule time to exercise every day.
- Have a meal with the city manager.
- Date your significant other at least once a week.
- Take a selfie with the church before worship.
- Pray for each member of the congregation.
- Call an old friend.
- Write personalized thank you notes to each member of the search committee.
- Keep your daily devotions.
- Seek stories from the senior adults.
- Play on the playground with the children.
- Hang out with the youth group.
- Google your church.
- Get monthly feedback from the transition team.
- Convene listening sessions with the church.
- Tell good stories about your previous ministry.
- Take a short survey of the church.
- Assess the church’s financial health.
- Write down your short-term and long-term goals for the church.
- Cast a vision for right now (Hint: CBF’s Dawnings initiative can help).
- Inventory all the church’s printed and digital communication materials.
- Skip church one Sunday to observe the community during Sunday school and worship.
- Ask the police chief to take you to where the community aches.
- Prayer-walk the church property.
- Evaluate the church’s existing programs.
- Pray to discern God’s calling for you among the church.
- Listen to the complaints of the church.
- Write a newsletter article.
- Delegate minor tasks to keep you focused on the big picture.
- Learn the history of your church.
- Call the former ministers (and ask to speak with their spouse).
- Take notes on what you observe.
- Follow through on all of your commitments.
- Journal your accomplishments so far.
- Do something spontaneous.
- Walk the closest downtown area.
- Meet with the Deacons.
- Build a team of trusted advisors.
- Fix high traffic/visibility areas of the church.
- Give your references an update.
- Tell your funniest story since you moved into the community.
- Identify the powerbrokers and knowledge holders of the church.
- Write down what you didn’t know you didn’t know.
- Read through your favorite Gospel.
- Learn how things get done around the church.
- Pay a visit to the local historical district.
- Subscribe to the church, city, and schools on your social media feeds.
- Order altar flowers for the neighboring church on behalf of your church.
- Say “Thank you” a lot.
- Do something kind for your new neighbors.
- Make your church look good.
- Learn the work styles of your colleagues.
- Email ministers who have recently transitioned.
- In all the doing, be your true, authentic self.
- Be tough on problems and easy on people.
- Remember it takes 18 months to transition.
- Embrace the idea that you are never finished.
- Don’t try to do too much.
What else would you add to this list?
Craig Janney serves as the CBF Reference and Referral Manager. If you are a minister in transition or are searching for a new minister in your church, contact Craig at cjanney@cbf.net.